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is a great resource for female-approved gay sex scenes and it gives you some ideas of the sounds, facial expressions, and sex acts that real gay men actually perform together. Also, if you are comfortable, you can experiment with your own body (a lot of the subjective experiences of anal sex that my characters express are based on my own experiences, I may not have a prostate but I can still experience the stretching, the burn, and the pain like a gay man would!) Also, watch some gay porn.
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is a great data base of different authors and styles, there are sections like "gay male" and "the butt and nothing but" that will prove useful on this endeavor. If you feel like you don't know what happens during gay sex, then read up on it. General words like butt, ass, or buttocks are softer.Īfter you decide what type of scene you want to write, and to what degree you want to write it, then you should read other writers to see how they use that technique. As for the receiving end, anything you use will be scatological so only use anus, rectum, or sphincter if you're brave. Dick is associated with Black erotica, and gay male erotica uses so many euphinisms for the penis it is RIDICULOUS (this is the source of "man rod" and other lovely euphinisms). As for choice of anatomical terms, do what you are comfortable with. However, do not discount the benefits of softcore. I tend to lean towards anatomical/scatological details because the authors that I admire use them. When I first started writing I could not stand using anatomical words, I used sentences like "Loren bit his lip when Justin pressed into him" wen now I would write "Justin placed the tip of his penis against Loren and pushed into the lubricated opening." Again, do what you are comfortable with, you can be as graphic or softcore as you want. He couldn't believe that just last night that hair was brushing against his stomach and tickling his innner thighs." See how it results in a much "classier" prose but still illustrates the sex act clearly in the reader's mind? This makes the reader's imagination take over and paint the scene for you while minimizing writer embarassment. Ex- "Loren stretched and his hand brushed against Justin's hair. The afterward method can be pretty effective because it minimizes having to write the scene, focuses more of emotions afterwards, and can titillate MORE than the full-monty could. You don't HAVE to write the scene, you can use the "fade to black" method or the "afterward" method. I am in no way an expert in this area, but I do have more experience than some so here is my advice and resources:ĭo whatever you are comfortable with. I typed her a long e-mail, but considering that many of you on embarking on your own adventures with NaNoWriMo I thought I should post my reply here as well.
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YaoikittenOne of my readers asked for any pointers I could give regarding writing a homosexual love scene.